Wednesday, December 3, 2014

13 - Thanksgiving Reunion

            Thanksgiving has been one of my favorite holidays. You can visit with family, watch some football, and get stuffed like a turkey with turkey. After two years, this past Thanksgiving I was able to go up to Idaho Falls and be with my family. Three years ago I took my roommates with me up for Thanksgiving because they were not able to go back to their homes for Thanksgiving. One of them was from China and it would have been a really long trip back home so I just invited them to my place. It was a blast having them there.
The one from China, not yet a member of the Church, thought that Mormons only ate steak and green jello w/carrots. He was sad to find out that it wasn’t true. But with turkey, stuffing, and green bean casserole (his new favorite), we ate to our hearts content.
One day we took my Grandpa’s four-wheeler and his sled out for a ride. We had forgotten snow clothes back at our apartment in Provo but that didn’t stop us from going out in below freezing temperatures. Afterwards we came in and had some good hot chocolate and watched played a board game with the family.  It was such a great thanksgiving.
            Now three years later, I invited them back with me to Idaho again for Thanksgiving. A lot had changed since then. Two of us had gone on missions. I was engaged, the one from China was dating a girl from back home, and the other one was waiting for a girl to get back from her mission. Besides our relationships status. We had all changed a lot spiritually and we were more mature. We didn’t take the sled out this year because there was no snow but it was good to have them back. Able to relive some memories and able to share our new stories. If we are all still here. We’ll have to plan on doing it again next year. 

12 - An Easy Way to get Paid

           Being a college student can get pretty expensive. Even after scholarships and grants, there still can be a lot of school that you need to pay for. Things like books, rent, loans, gas, car payment, fees, tuition, and most importantly food. At the beginning of the semester, I had just gotten back from serving my mission and I had only $4000 or so in the bank. Where tuition this year after my scholarship was $2250 a semester, I did not have enough money at all to pay for school. But I was lucky and I was able to find a job here on campus. Probably not the job that I would have liked but it pays well and it doesn’t conflict with my school schedule.
            Now I have enough income to help me out through the rest of the year and I am able to pay for things that I need. But even then it would be fun to have a little extra cash to do some fun stuff or even just to have a little bit of security cash. So to make a little extra I decided to donate Plasma.
My experience donating plasma has be good to me so far. When you donate, the take the blood from your veins, run it through a centrifuge, separate the plasma from your blood, and return the rest of it back into your veins. It’s simple, safe, and painless. You get compensated for your time. Plus, you are helping save the lives of other people. You can donate up to twice a week and can make up to about $220 each month. It really is a nice and easy way to make a little bit of extra cash. As long as you’re not afraid of needles. I would recommend it to anyone. 

11 - The Beard Code

          There has been a lot of talk recently about beards at BYU. The New York Times even did an article on it. A lot of students are complaining that BYU is restricting them on what they can and cannot do with their facial hair. Students when they come to BYU sign an Honor Code and commit to live by it. The Honor Code includes staying away from alcohol, tobacco, illegal substances, sexual misconduct, and maintain the standards of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It also includes a dress and grooming standard. All of BYU students generally follow these standards but so many are hung up on the beard problem.
Concerning facial hair, the honor code says, “If worn, moustaches should be neatly trimmed and may not extend beyond or below the corners of the mouth. Men are expected to be clean-shaven; beards are not acceptable.” For myself, this statement doesn’t bother me but to others being “expected to be clean-shaven” is a little too far for them. These standards were given to BYU by its Board of Trustees which includes the First Presidency and three members of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. These are leaders that we sustain as Prophet, Seers, and Revelators. They are who we believe are called by God to lead His Church.  If they feel that it is the best of interest for BYU students to not have beards, I am absolutely fine with that and so should every student at this campus.
Beards are something that is so menial. Our time here at BYU is short compared to the rest of our lives. If we are required not to have a beard, that is okay. We could always grow one after we are done. We may not completely understand why this is a rule but I believe that it is for our best interest. 

10 - The Electronics Arms Race

Just like the Arms Race of the Cold War. Another is happening in my apartment. Actually, it is happening around the world. It is not a race for weapons or who has the biggest guns but it is a race to beat the other side. This race is for the best, newest, and biggest electronics that you can have.
I believe it all started when one of my roommates bought a new projector and screen off of ksl.com. It was a pretty good deal. It has been used multiple times. But ever since then my other roommates have been buying iPads, looking into a new desktops, getting new headphones, and trying to out due the other roommate. I, on the other hand, just sit back and watch. I wouldn’t mind getting a new iPad, a new computer, or even the new Wii-U. But I do not have the money for it. I think that my roommates are crazy spending hundreds of dollars on electronics like they were buying a snack from the snack machine.
             All in all, I let them have their little war. To me, I would never spend that kind of money right now as a college student. But it is fun to watch them go at it. Even though I think their crazy. I think tonight I’ll watch a movie on the projector. Oh the joys of others spending. 

9 - Snowball?

You’ve probably been wondering for a while now ‘what’s with the title of his blog’ or ‘who names there blog A Snowball by Any Other Name is Still a Snowball.’ Today your curiosity is now being relieved of its torture, while I tell you about the torturous days of my childhood. (I was not really tortured).
            It all started when I was little. Ever since I was born I have had a full head of blonde hair. Today it is still blonde but darker than it used to be. I was a “toe-head.” My hair was so white that my uncle would always say that if you through me into a snow drift and only the top of my head was showing you still wouldn’t be able to see me. From that day he gave me the nickname “snowball.”
            With reference to the line from Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, the title of my blog explains how I fell about myself. If you take some snow and form it in your hands you can make a snowball. No matter if it is small or big, rough or smooth a snowball is still a snowball.  I lot of things have happen in my life. I have some rough edges and some smooth ones. I use to be small but now I’m pretty big. But in the end I am still me, Trevin Allan Lasley.

Thursday, November 20, 2014

8 - Playing Smart - A Narrative

Playing Smart
He did it again, I thought, Not very smart is he.
As my teammates and I approached the line, our blood coursing through our veins with anticipation and sweat dripping on our royal jerseys, we all keep focus on our target waiting for that ball to get moving. Expect, unknown to everyone on the field, the ball had already been put into play. Well it’s too late now, I told myself as their quarterback began his cadence. With the snap of a wrist, twenty-two bodies start to collide with each other. The quarterback has the ball, fakes a handoff to his running back, pulls back and BAM. He’s hit by T.J., smashing his frame into the field. Ouch! Good tackle.
While they got themselves untangled, I rush over to the official. “Hey Ref! If their center picks up that ball again before the play starts. It’s live right?” I asked.
“Good eyes kid,” He replies. “I’ve been watching him for the past couple of plays. If he does it again, it’s free-game.”
“Sweet! Thanks ref.”
Hurrying back to the game, I look over and see my coach eyeing me. Just watch coach, I smirk, they’re not getting a first down this run. Keeping my plan secret from my teammates, we again approach the line. Taking my position, I see the ball resting peacefully waiting for thoughtless hands to get it ready for play. Each play, a center readjusts the ball to a better position so when the ball leaves the field, it can have a smooth pass to next awaiting hands. At any point though that the ball leaves its green bed, it’s awake. That’s what I’m waiting for. That’s what I’m hoping to see.
The other team approaches the line in their blood red uniforms and gets in position. Keeping an eye on their center, I watch him approach the ball, grab it with his beefy hands, and lifts it up ever so slightly giving me my cue. Quick as a cougar, I jump for the ball, snatch it from his hands, and roll away with the ball to the other end of the line. As I come to a stop, I hear the whistle blow letting us know that the play had ended. Getting up my teammates came over with a not too pleased look on their faces.
“What were you thinking Lasley?” One of them said. “Now they’re going to get an automatic first down.”
“No they won’t,” I responded, “ask the ref.”
Everyone turned to the referee impatiently waiting for his call. “The blue team has recovered the ball.” He proclaims. “First down!”
“Wait what?” T.J. asked. “How did that just happened?”
“I’ll tell you later,” I replied “Right now we have a game to win.” Giving each other a quick fist bump, we head back onto the field. Everyone could be good at a sport but not everyone plays smart. But I do.
As the years went by, I kept getting better and better at football. Starting every game on the defensive line and making big, smart plays throughout the season. Those big plays arose because I kept my eyes open, looking for the advantage, and calculating every move. Part of playing smart is knowing that everything on the field is not always what matters most. Sometimes it’s the time off the field that you truly have to keep your eyes open.
When we first started to play the game, we all began on the same level. As the years went by though, I kept my eyes open and I didn’t like what I saw. Pride crept in and decided to change things up a bit.
One day while in the weight room, the team was getting ready for a big game that Saturday. Hearing some commotion, I turned a look down the Alley. In the weight room, tucked out of sight from the main room, there runs a hallway with a line of weight equipment along both walls. At one of the weight benches close to the end of the hallway a small fuss began. T.J. give the kid a break, I thought. The new kid from Utah stood up against one the weight benches under the glare of T.J. and his group of admirers. Why do they look up to this idiot? He’s a jerk and a bully. On the field, he could make some really key plays and a great asset to the team. Off the field though, he allowed that pride to rule over others.
Quickly jogging down the Alley, I confront T.J. “Unless you want to sit the bench,” I warned, “leave the kid alone.”
“We weren’t doing nothing.” He replied angrily. “We were just getting to know our new friend.”
Looking at the frightened kid, it sure didn’t look like they were becoming best buds. On the concrete, new scratch marks appeared from the bench, being moved from the skirmish. Weights had fallen over all the floor. It sure didn’t look like a happy conversation.
“Yeah some friend you would be,” I responded back. “I know what you were doing and it needs to stop.” Turning back around, I left them behind.
As I headed back to my bench, I looked at my teammates around me.  Friends I had played with for so many years now didn’t seem like friends anymore. They had changed, I had changed. Now is the time to be smart. I think to myself as I leave it all behind. 

Friday, November 14, 2014

7 - My Experience at the Y

Being at BYU has been one of the best experiences of my life. Growing up, one of my biggest dreams was to be able to come to the Y and graduate from here. I'm not quite sure why I wanted to come here so bad but I felt that it was the best place for me to be. My stay here has proven that it was the best choice for me.
My favorite part of being on this campus is sometimes just to sit and look around. Being able to see that all of the other students and faculty have the same standards as me, being able to look up at the mountains seeing the white caps on top, and being able to see myself grow through all of my classes.
Probably the hardest part of being at BYU is managing my time. Unlike most other schools, at BYU you have church callings, school, and work which sometimes mold into one. You have to put a lot of time into each of these areas. But when you are doing to right things, keeping everything in the priority that they belong, Heavenly Father watches over His students here at BYU. He makes it possible for us to succeed.
BYU has been an amazing place to be. I for sure would not want to go anywhere else.