Thursday, November 20, 2014

8 - Playing Smart - A Narrative

Playing Smart
He did it again, I thought, Not very smart is he.
As my teammates and I approached the line, our blood coursing through our veins with anticipation and sweat dripping on our royal jerseys, we all keep focus on our target waiting for that ball to get moving. Expect, unknown to everyone on the field, the ball had already been put into play. Well it’s too late now, I told myself as their quarterback began his cadence. With the snap of a wrist, twenty-two bodies start to collide with each other. The quarterback has the ball, fakes a handoff to his running back, pulls back and BAM. He’s hit by T.J., smashing his frame into the field. Ouch! Good tackle.
While they got themselves untangled, I rush over to the official. “Hey Ref! If their center picks up that ball again before the play starts. It’s live right?” I asked.
“Good eyes kid,” He replies. “I’ve been watching him for the past couple of plays. If he does it again, it’s free-game.”
“Sweet! Thanks ref.”
Hurrying back to the game, I look over and see my coach eyeing me. Just watch coach, I smirk, they’re not getting a first down this run. Keeping my plan secret from my teammates, we again approach the line. Taking my position, I see the ball resting peacefully waiting for thoughtless hands to get it ready for play. Each play, a center readjusts the ball to a better position so when the ball leaves the field, it can have a smooth pass to next awaiting hands. At any point though that the ball leaves its green bed, it’s awake. That’s what I’m waiting for. That’s what I’m hoping to see.
The other team approaches the line in their blood red uniforms and gets in position. Keeping an eye on their center, I watch him approach the ball, grab it with his beefy hands, and lifts it up ever so slightly giving me my cue. Quick as a cougar, I jump for the ball, snatch it from his hands, and roll away with the ball to the other end of the line. As I come to a stop, I hear the whistle blow letting us know that the play had ended. Getting up my teammates came over with a not too pleased look on their faces.
“What were you thinking Lasley?” One of them said. “Now they’re going to get an automatic first down.”
“No they won’t,” I responded, “ask the ref.”
Everyone turned to the referee impatiently waiting for his call. “The blue team has recovered the ball.” He proclaims. “First down!”
“Wait what?” T.J. asked. “How did that just happened?”
“I’ll tell you later,” I replied “Right now we have a game to win.” Giving each other a quick fist bump, we head back onto the field. Everyone could be good at a sport but not everyone plays smart. But I do.
As the years went by, I kept getting better and better at football. Starting every game on the defensive line and making big, smart plays throughout the season. Those big plays arose because I kept my eyes open, looking for the advantage, and calculating every move. Part of playing smart is knowing that everything on the field is not always what matters most. Sometimes it’s the time off the field that you truly have to keep your eyes open.
When we first started to play the game, we all began on the same level. As the years went by though, I kept my eyes open and I didn’t like what I saw. Pride crept in and decided to change things up a bit.
One day while in the weight room, the team was getting ready for a big game that Saturday. Hearing some commotion, I turned a look down the Alley. In the weight room, tucked out of sight from the main room, there runs a hallway with a line of weight equipment along both walls. At one of the weight benches close to the end of the hallway a small fuss began. T.J. give the kid a break, I thought. The new kid from Utah stood up against one the weight benches under the glare of T.J. and his group of admirers. Why do they look up to this idiot? He’s a jerk and a bully. On the field, he could make some really key plays and a great asset to the team. Off the field though, he allowed that pride to rule over others.
Quickly jogging down the Alley, I confront T.J. “Unless you want to sit the bench,” I warned, “leave the kid alone.”
“We weren’t doing nothing.” He replied angrily. “We were just getting to know our new friend.”
Looking at the frightened kid, it sure didn’t look like they were becoming best buds. On the concrete, new scratch marks appeared from the bench, being moved from the skirmish. Weights had fallen over all the floor. It sure didn’t look like a happy conversation.
“Yeah some friend you would be,” I responded back. “I know what you were doing and it needs to stop.” Turning back around, I left them behind.
As I headed back to my bench, I looked at my teammates around me.  Friends I had played with for so many years now didn’t seem like friends anymore. They had changed, I had changed. Now is the time to be smart. I think to myself as I leave it all behind. 

Friday, November 14, 2014

7 - My Experience at the Y

Being at BYU has been one of the best experiences of my life. Growing up, one of my biggest dreams was to be able to come to the Y and graduate from here. I'm not quite sure why I wanted to come here so bad but I felt that it was the best place for me to be. My stay here has proven that it was the best choice for me.
My favorite part of being on this campus is sometimes just to sit and look around. Being able to see that all of the other students and faculty have the same standards as me, being able to look up at the mountains seeing the white caps on top, and being able to see myself grow through all of my classes.
Probably the hardest part of being at BYU is managing my time. Unlike most other schools, at BYU you have church callings, school, and work which sometimes mold into one. You have to put a lot of time into each of these areas. But when you are doing to right things, keeping everything in the priority that they belong, Heavenly Father watches over His students here at BYU. He makes it possible for us to succeed.
BYU has been an amazing place to be. I for sure would not want to go anywhere else.


Friday, October 31, 2014

6 - Reflective Essay on My Research Paper

As we were preparing to write our Research Paper, my teacher, Sister Steadman, gave us a well-organized, structured schedule to help us stay on track and give us plenty of time to right our paper. For about over a course of a month, we were able to choose a topic, go to the library to do some research during class time, learn how to do an annotative bibliography, prepare a rough draft, peer edit, and finish our paper due today on Halloween.  That all would have worked out just fine for me. Except I decided to change my topic last minute.
For our topic, Sister Steadman said we could write about a family story or do some research about our family history. With this family story we could research more about it from a scholarly point of view. Originally, I wanted to write a paper about the Khmer Rouge. My fiancée is part Cambodian, and her parents are refugees from Cambodia during the time the Khmer Rouge started to take over the country. My topic would have been on the effect of the Khmer Rouge and their social standing here in America. After I had collected sources and prepared a Thesis, I was stuck as to where to begin to write my paper. I realized that yes I did want to learn about my fiancée’s family history but I didn't want to write a paper about it. Tossing that idea aside, I started over last minute and wrote my paper about divorce and the affect it has on adult children while they planning on getting married. This topic was something important that I wanted to understand because I am a child of divorce.
Once I created my Thesis and found some sources, writing was much easier and I was able to get the paper done. I also was able to learn about a lot of ideas that I could implement into my relationship with my fiancée as we prepare to get married. I also learned that next time I need to write a paper I need to make sure that I have a solid topic that I am interested to write about. It would save a lot of time and a lot of hassle. Lesson learned.


Monday, October 13, 2014

5 - General Conference Oct. 2014 Analysis on "Choose Wisely" by Elder Cook

Coming into conference, I had a lot of questions. In the next year, I will be make a lot of decisions that will greatly impact my life and the lives of those around me. Decisions such as marriage, school, where to live, and many others. I really wanted to know from this conference what I could do to prepare for these life decisions. A talk that really helped me think and ponder about these questions was the talk by Elder Quentin L. Cook, "Choose Wisely." Elder Cook refers back to many great talks to help us know which decisions we need to focus on.
One of those talks that he refers to is Elder Oaks's Talk "Good, Better, Best." He referred back to this talk to help us know which choices we have are good, which are better, and then which are best. We would all like to make the best choices in life but sometimes our goals are not on tract with that best choice. Some good choices we have are to marry a spouse with the same standards as you. A better choice would to marry a someone who is a member of the church at a chapel or something. But the best choice is to marry and be sealed to a spouse in the Temple. They way that God would like us to marry. He clearly helps us see what goals we should make and the best goals are eternal goals.
Another reference in his talk was a quote by President Monson, "Decisions Determine Destiny." Every choice we make has a consequence and it is a good reminder each day to remember that sometimes a decisions not only effects our own destinies but also the destinies of others.
General conference has also been a great time of the year to reset our goals. It can be a good reminder on what goals that we have set and even give us strength do better. The best decisions we make in this life will have an eternal reward in the end. Our destiny is to become like Heavenly Father. May our decisions lead us to that destiny. 


Friday, October 3, 2014

4 - Research Topic and Thesis

Recently I started dating a Cambodian/Thai girl. She speaks both languages but she grew up mostly in the Cambodian culture. She was born here in America but her six older siblings at her parents were born in Cambodia. The reason why they left Cambodia was because of the Khmer Rouge. Some questions i have wondered:
·         How did the Khmer Rouge start? Was it because of the Vietnamese war?
·         How has it affected the Khmer (Cambodian) people that are now here in America?
·         Did Heavenly Father lead them out of Cambodia? Yes. How?
·         ? ? ?

I have no idea but interesting topic!
What are her stories of Cambodia?

That is a cool topic!  I don't know much about Cambodia.  It would be interesting to interview her and her family, as well as use a narrative about leaving Cambodia for your introduction to your research paper.
I think it would be interesting if you researched when and how the Cambodian people came to America.

Are you going to marry her?? Make sure you interview her parents, not to ask her to marry you, but to know personal stories from her parents and grandparents.
I like how dating her makes you interested in the topic! I'm not very familiar with Khmer Rouge, but I'm sure it would be a great thing to learn about! 

Thesis: Many survivors of the Khmer Rouge feel that they are stuck in the welfare system and others are content to stay where they are. Despite this, many have overcome the affects of the Khmer Rouge through the motivation of higher education, family, and the Gospel of Jesus Christ.


Friday, September 26, 2014

3 - Reflecting Back on Rhetorical Analysis

         Writing this paper was not very fun. This past week I started my new job and trying to work 3 hours each day plus school work has been hectic. My job right now, because i just got hired, I do not have a set schedule so it has been kind of hard to organize my time. By next week though I should have a more set schedule. The biggest thing I think I could work on for my next assignments is to better manage my time with work and school. When it is organized and neat then i will be able to turn all things in on time and be able to space my workload to an understandable amount. Besides time. I actually quite enjoyed writing this paper. It was fun so research about C.S. Lewis and be able to see his ideals about Christianity. It’s hard to believe that he was not Christian. This paper we analyzed his argument, dissected it, and write about it. One thing I will do much better next time is give myself time and use that time. What a roller coaster weekend. 

Sunday, September 14, 2014

2 - Family Stories Combine Generations

One time at a family reunion we had gotten this jar full of little strips of paper. On each paper was written a life question that we could ask grandma and grandpa. I remember this as being one my favorite family reunions. Learning more about my grandparents and their life was quite an amazing experience. I don't remember each question that was asked and maybe even what each of their answers were but I was able to feel how strong our family was after that day. I really liked the article The Stories That Bind Us By Bruce Feiler. It helped remind me how important my family is and how much I would like for my children to know about them. The church has done a really good job now with connecting these family stories on their website familysearch.org where we can upload family pics and stories. In the scriptures i was reading the other day in Alma 37. Verse 8 really seemed applicable to this, it reads "And now, it has hitherto been wisdom in God that these things should be preserved; for behold, they have enlarged the memory of this people, yea, and convinced many of the error of their ways, and brought them to the knowledge of their God unto the salvation of their souls."
The stories of our ancestors are like our personal set of scriptures. Where we can learn from their pasts to either follow their example or to make our life better. I am grateful to be a descendant of many great members of the church. I have learned from them and I hope my children will be able to also.